The brutal truth of a cruel life doesn’t have to destroy everything around you. We know it’s not easy being a person in a world which wants to force you into a box. Life is not cruel or brutal nor would it have to be to create order within a group of people whom share the same space.
We both are the eldest child in our respective homes. It can be an advantage or a necessary evil. Whatever the situation we are the first to do and have or do anything. If everyone knows the score and the endgame it is an interesting life. I personally, Carlysia Carlys were born into a radically different set of circumstances during the 1962 hoppy days & sweep it under the rug mentality. Too often a person is not the first choice for the way the life is set on its trajectory. I was born into a larger size family with quite a few differences in the age range and the paternal heritage if you know what I mean.
We begin life as infant whom is dependent on everything they need in which to survive. If all the people are not up to the challenge the child may suffer greatly unless someone steps in. Alex & I grew up in slightly different eras, countries or origin and with a complicated set of parents and other adults whom were caregivers of one or the other sorts.. We are both great full of our life regardlesss of the upbringing or the parental heritage & facets thereof. Why do so many persons take life and everything about it for granted> The exact answer is not clear nor is it the same for every person but the worst thing we can do as an individual, is to decide if the other person has the full ability to make a choice based on their own upbringing. We do believe the things that matter the most to the constituents of a country, state or local government are not being served appropriately nor are they being held with the utmost of respect as the good bible suggests.
One thing for sure is thus; If any person is making choices for another they should always look at the truth of a situation and never ever choose to throw caution to the wind, for when a person does this it becomes the winds plan or deed. The action performed is no longer part of an imaginary scenario that is not given the importance it truly deserves. Sadly in life it is that way in a family or even as high as a government official. This is even more sad because we are not getting a far consideration on a level which is or could be our last hope to have a life of any consiquence.